Vanessa Bellafiore, Lorenzo Alvarez, James Nelson and I discuss their experiences on the dating app Hater. What's the best way to end a casual relationship. How to determine if you're dating someone casually (eg just sleeping together), or if it's more datey. What it's like to be the person who ghosts someone. Navigating the tumultuous waters of being friends with your exes. Transitioning the types of people you're attracted to, and how to know when someone is too vanilla or if it's just a slow roll. Relationships as ice cream flavors.