Mells bells and I discuss her written work for a dating website in which she describes her grocery store flirting attempt. Bad online dates. Good music to set the mood/get down to. Thoughts about relationships (rebounds) after long term relationships: is it better to feel sad alone or engage in casual relationships after long term ones? What does it say about you if you attract shitty people? How to be more of an effective communicator in relationships, avoiding destructive blow ups. Tips for a discouraged online dater. Dating ppl who want to abruptly leave after sex. Some BDSM basics.